


Here she is with her friend, Lexie.
And Makayla. Tiara thinks they are the same age. Makayla's so sweet to play along.
A Story of the Craziness that we call Life



And Makayla. Tiara thinks they are the same age. Makayla's so sweet to play along.
Posted by Sonda at 10:41 PM 2 comments
Do you ever have those days when you wonder how you EVER get by in life? Well, that's me. I usually pride myself on being pretty smart and a thinker, but maybe I shouldn't. Thursday night, as I was looking at some pictures on my camera, I noticed that some of them weren't focused very well and seemed to be more of a resolution problem than a focusing problem. So I went through the settings I had on my camera and changed a few things...increased the resolution, etc. What I didn't realize I had done until it was too late was reformatting my memory card. DUH!! How I could have ever done that without really thinking about what I was doing is beyond me. I'm partly mad at myself and partly in awe that I actually did that. ALL of the pictures on my camera are gone! Thanksgiving, McCall's birthday, Seth's Christmas program, our cruise, and Santa. ALL GONE!! Luckily I had transferred a few of them to post on here, but I had compressed them so it's not like they will print very big. How could I be so stupid???
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Isn't he just so cute?!!
Posted by Sonda at 7:55 PM 2 comments
Our cruise was so much fun! We (I) have wanted to go on a cruise for so long and have tried to plan one before, but it hasn't ever worked out. We decided that for our 10th anniversary would be a great time, so off we went. Finding places for all of the kids was the hardest part. This is the first vacation we've been on without kids (other than little weekend getaways) since before the kids, so it was much needed. But having to find places for 5 was nearly impossible and I thought about cancelling our trip a few times because of the hassle. I'm so glad I didn't. Grandpa Martin (yes, you read that right!) took Spencer and Seth for the week and they had a blast. As I said before, Seth wanted to stay and live with them (read - live with the Wii)! Grandpa took them to lunch every day, to the DUP museum and to visit Grandma at school. Thank you Grandpa! And my friend/angel, Kim, took Davis, Tiara and McCall. She was so brave to even consider it, especially because she has 4 of her own and is expecting another in February! She is amazing! They had fun and are still talking about when they lived at Kim's house. I could never thank her enough for helping. Now she just needs to go on vacation so I can pay her back! (hint, hint Chet!)
So with all the kids taken care of, we headed off to San Diego and onto our ship. Dave had never gone on a cruise before, so I wasn't sure (but hopeful) that he would like it. He did and is ready to plan the next one! We ehjoyed the time alone together and being able to be "Dave & Sonda" instead of "Mommy & Daddy". It didn't take long to relax and get back in to being a couple. It felt like another honeymoon. I fell in love with him all over again and couldn't believe how much time had gone by that we were just on autopilot. It's so easy to focus only on the kids, especially while they are young, and forget that we both need attention too. Well, this trip made up for it. It made me realize how much energy I put into our family and how little enrgy I have left to nurture my relationship with Dave. We've always done things together, but it's been with the kids or after they go to bed. Maybe now we'll be a little better about getting a sitter and going out together. If it was only that easy *sigh* 



Posted by Sonda at 8:26 PM 4 comments
Dave and I just got back from a cruise to Mexico last night, and I'm having a hard time adjusting. I really did miss the kids, but I really miss the childless life too. I'm still rocking back and forth and feeling like the earth is moving. Dave has been really dizzy, although better today than yesterday. We had so much fun and I'll post pictures later. But right now, I really need someone to bring me a Diet Coke and make me something yummy to eat. I can't find anyone that will make my bed, clean up all the messes and I didn't get a chocolate on my pillow last night!! Reality is here with kids running wild, whining and piles of dirty clothes in my laundry room. Spencer and Seth had so much fun with Grandma and Grandpa, although Seth informed us that he wasn't homesick yet and wanted to stay longer. Could it be because Grandpa took them out to lunch every day??? He wants to go live with them! Apparently, our house isn't fun enough because we don't have a Wii and we fix food at home. Some days I might let him! Davis, Tiara and McCall went to Fullmer's house with Davis' bestest buddy, Hunter. From Kim's blog, it looks like they had a good time. I'm just glad to get McCall back. She's so good that I'd really miss her sweet spirit around our house. Maybe Kim will get lucky and have one just like her. Thanks you to everyone for taking such good care of our kids while we were gone. Now are there any volunteers out there to bring me a Diet Coke and that yummy chocolate melting cake that I totally overindulged in? I want to go back...
Posted by Sonda at 3:23 PM 2 comments
Yippee! McCall is 2 today! This morning she got to open her 1 present we got her. Seth was quite upset that we only got her 1 and made sure we knew that he thought that was a bum deal. But with a big sister only a year older and Christmas 3 weeks away that was all she was going to get. I feel a little bad, but I'm sure we'll make it up to her when she's older. She didn't seem to care though. She got a new baby that is all hers, NOT Tiara's. She's always had to "borrow" one from Tia when they want to play. Not anymore. She is officially a big girl now.
Here she is with her cake from Sunday at Grandma's house and tonight at home.

Posted by Sonda at 8:25 PM 4 comments